It’s October. I love October because the leaves are changing (atleast when I grew up on the East coast they did) and it’s my birthday month. This year I will be turning 40. I am excited and thrilled to have reached this milestone. Ironically, my birthday falls on an auspicious day in the Jewish calendar this year. It’s on a holiday called Yom Kippur. This holiday concludes the Days of Atonement. It is a day of fasting, prayer and introspection. When I realized a couple of years ago that my birthday would fall Yom Kippur when I turned 40, I was pretty upset, but as I am nearing this birthday now I am actually okay with this. I think it is a wonderful coincidence. Around 40, you become more introspective anyway so it makes sense that this year I will be “celebrating” that occasion with a day completely focused on that.
752 & 753) Sent out a condolence card and made a donation for someone who recently lost a child family member.
754) Sent out a condolence card to a friend whose brother died.
755) Recently a receptionist did a special favor for me and the next day I brought her a little thank you note and token of my appreciation. She seemed very surprised and touched.
756) My daughter and I had a funny discussion last week about whether this was a mitzvah. She thought it was! I picked up my kids and brought them home as usually, we settled in to do our homework only to realize my daughter had forgotten her book and homework at school. I offered to take her back to school to retrieve what she needed for her assignments. She of course was very grateful.
757) Bought a cake from a young woman who was selling them as a fundraiser.
758) Called the Rebbetzin to check in.
759) Used a recyclable bag at the grocery store.
760) Sent a get well card to a friend out of town who had surgery.
761) Sent a get well card to someone who’d had surgery and was recovering.
762 &763) Recommended to two people a professional association meeting that I thought might be beneficial.
Received two mitzvahs this week. We were out to see a play on Saturday night and afterwards stopped at a restaurant to see if we could get a special dessert. The restaurant had already closed for the night but not only did the owner give me some of the special dessert, he didn’t charge me!! We were with some friends so all of us witnessed this mitzvah.
Received a call from a non Jewish friend to wish me a Happy New Year. That was a wonderful mitzvah.